IN HIS FOOTSTEPS: Leading by Example

A Devotional Reflection

1 July 2025.

"Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in faith, in purity." 1 Timothy 4:12 NKJV 

Understanding Leadership

I firmly believe everyone is a leader in their own way. Think about it—a three-week-old baby commands attention through crying, or a kid takes charge in a game. That's leadership in action! You command, direct, organize, or plan to achieve your goals. But what kind of leadership does Scripture commend? Today, let's explore the principle of leading by example. 

The Principle of Leading by Example

To lead by example means showing others practically what to do, rather than just telling them. It's about modeling through actions, behavior, and speech what you expect from others. We experienced this firsthand in our Sunday school days with a game where we'd copy our teacher's actions, singing "Do like I do" and then repeating exactly what we saw.

The Importance of leading by example

A true leader must be accountable for their actions, words, behavior, and conduct to earn the trust of those they lead. God expects leaders to be self-aware and reflective. Knowing this, let's reflect on our own experiences. Have you ever complained about a leader? What specific issues did you complain about? I've seen it happen with one of our church leaders—the congregation complains about him, even when he calls meetings. The problem is, he tells others what to do but doesn't get involved himself. As a result, his words, actions, and conduct have damaged his reputation. 

Jesus' Example

In contrast, Jesus demonstrated practical leadership by feeding the hungry and helping others. He encouraged his followers to do the same. Paul told the Corinthians to imitate him, just as he imitated Christ (1 Corinthians 11:1). Leaders should be examples worth following, building trust and credibility, fostering a positive and productive environment, and building a strong reputation—not just giving orders. 

Applying the Principle

As we apply this principle, as Paul called Timothy to lead by example to avoid being despised, you too need this principle to protect your reputation, build trust and credibility, and foster a positive and productive environment with those you lead. Your words, actions, and behaviors should reflect what you want others to portray. Think again and think big! Which area of your leadership do people complain about every day? Is there any leader you know that you'd like to share this principle with, as God wants?

 Prayer and Reflection

Let's pray that God helps us overcome the hindrances that make the people we lead complain or lose trust in us. Dear Father, like Timothy, help me to lead your people so that I'm honored before you. If I'm tempted not to lead by example, let your Spirit humble me to your standards. 

Amen. 

Reflection Questions

- What areas of your leadership need improvement?

- How can you lead by example in your daily life?

- Who can you share this principle with, and how can you encourage them to lead by example?

 Action Step

Take a few moments to reflect on your leadership style and how you can lead by example.

Write down specific actions you can take this week to demonstrate leadership and integrity.