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soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15:1
Devotion 7. July 7, 2025
In our previous devotion, James 1:19 advises us to listen actively to build trust and understanding and grasp the intended message, thereby enhancing our relationships and leadership. Listening requires a response, whether to agree or disagree. The response we give needs emotional intelligence; otherwise, we condemn or are condemned.
Emotional intelligence is important to believers and leaders, as the wise man says. But what is emotional intelligence? This is the ability to recognize and understand emotions in yourself and others. It involves understanding and recognizing others' feelings and emotions and using these emotions to motivate yourself and achieve your goals. You can manage your emotions to reach your objectives and forge strong relationships.
In leadership, emotional intelligence is vital because "it turns away wrath" (Proverbs 15:1). A leader needs emotional intelligence to navigate social situations, improve relationships with those they lead and others, and make wise decisions. A leader who lacks emotional intelligence stirs up anger because of their poor responses.
In applying emotional intelligence, let us recall the wise response of Joseph to his brothers who sold him in Egypt. His emotional intelligence saved his brothers from famine and brought them back together through his compassion and forgiveness (Genesis 45:1-15). David also demonstrated emotional intelligence by wisely responding to Saul's anger and jealousy. Jesus exemplified emotional intelligence in leadership by empathising with others, understanding their emotions, and responding with compassion (Matthew 9:36).
As previously mentioned, emotional intelligence involves managing anger, being slow to speak (Proverbs 17:27-28), and demonstrating empathy. An effective leader should embrace this truth to foster strong relationships and make wise decisions. By practicing emotional intelligence, we can navigate complex social situations, control our emotions, and respond with compassion and wisdom.
Take a moment of silence and reflect. What does this emotional intelligence teach you about your feelings and your relationships with others? How often do you confront issues related to emotional intelligence? Like Joseph, David, and Jesus, let us develop the power of emotional intelligence by applying wisdom, compassion, and empathy in our leadership. Avoid confrontational responses!
Dear God, thank you for reminding me about the implications of emotional intelligence. Help me to develop it so that I can respond to emotional challenges with wisdom and empathy.
Amen.
Memory Verse for the week: "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." Prov. 15:1.
